He was still in pain emotionally and he wanted to get it over with so he thought jumping into a new relationship with both feet would help him heal and be over me and our relationship sooner.
There was no chance in the world he could start with someone new while not being over me and our marriage -even though he wanted to believe and told everyone he was.
It can be a lot more fun that dealing with the misery of a recently broken heart.
The good news is they rarely last, rebounds generally fall apart within 3-4 months, and you know why. Do You Know That Your Text Messages Can Get Him Back? When your ex goes into a rebound relationship, they're not really looking for that special someone even though they may think so.
Someone told me that my ex was going through a rough patch with his girlfriend cause he was not over me/our relationship.
I heard he'd been pushing her away for months and he couldn't let go of his resentment or whatever feelings he had left for me. Just like most women, she wanted progress in relationship (and like most women, it was always not soon enough) and there had been none.
They're now engaged, married, back with their exes, in new or established happy relationships. HOW TO PREVENT PEOPLE FROM PUSHING YOUR BUTTONSDear Dr.
Without much ado or any manipulation on your part, your ex will start seriously considering giving your relationship another chance - simply because their rebound made them see that you're not that bad after all! Transform yourself to become a high-value woman with my teachings as thousands of women have attested.
Many people will jump back into the dating scene, which is fine so long they're doing it to live their lives in the moment and move on, but also because they fear being alone.
It's a quick fix if that's the case, one in which we can drown out our pain by reveling in the emotional intensity and passion of a new found love.
Don't start fights or a "heart-to-heart" talk with their new fling or try to talk your ex out of it - both would make you look manipulative, desperate and needy.
Instead, use this time to heal after the break-up by hitting the gym, going on a trip, working on a new project, socializing with friends and generally living as normal a life as possible.